Category: STTA (Something to think about)

February 28, 2018

How to make a vision board

Call me old fashioned… but I like to take time to make vision boards so I can stay focused and remind myself of what I’m working on/would like to have (more of) in my life. Here’s a quick video of me making my latest vision board and an explanation of how to make one: Yes, I am kind of old-school and take the time to…

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January 21, 2018

The best advice my grandmother gave me

My mom sent me a photo of my great grandmother today. She’s 109 years old. She lives in a nursing home in a somewhat rural area of South Korea. The last time I saw her was in 2011. Before that, the last time I had seen her was when I was about 3 years old. During those 16 ish years that I hadn’t seen my…

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November 15, 2017

Unemployment agenda and to do list

I’m starting a new role soon but I’ve been unemployed for the last week and a half. Usually unemployment conjures up feelings of unworthiness and anxiety, but this was a very intentional choice I made on my end (a blogpost how I left with no job lined up here). During my time off I haven’t been traveling or doing something extravagant but I have been…

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November 14, 2017

I left my job without a next step

I left my job without a next step and honestly, this isn’t anything new. I’ve had 4 jobs in the two-ish years I’ve been here in LA, and every job since I arrived to LA I have willingly resigned from. I moved from NYC to LA without a job (which was not ideal but just how things go) and everytime I felt that the job…

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November 11, 2017

My vision for 2020

I’ve been talking a lot about breathwork in person and on instagram, but haven’t written about it on the blog… yet. I’ll fill you in as soon as I can but wanted to start with this post, because it doesn’t require much explaining. Long story short, I attended a breathwork healer training workshop last weekend (11/4-5) which was two full days of self reflection, sharing…

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June 30, 2017

The difference between Boyfriend vs Partner

As I’ve gotten older, the way I use and define the word “boyfriend” has changed considerably. When I was younger and more indecisive, it insinuated someone I “hung out with” and liked for the time being. Nowadays it’s gotten even more intense. For me, a boyfriend is a partner. If you’re going to spend that much time, energy and money on another person why would…

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June 10, 2017

How to find your Soulmate

In just the last few years I’ve had the honor of meeting some incredible rare specimen type of people that I can consider to be soulmate material (professionally, personally and romantically). I did a blogpost on this before (here), but I wanted to do a video since the idea of soulmates has been popping up time and time again especially recently. I might sound crazy…

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June 3, 2017

11 green flags that showed me he’s a keeper

We’ve all heard/read/been in some unfortunate and downright offensive situations that happen in modern dating (I mean Tinder Nightmares exist!), but very rarely do you hear or see of the text message exchanges that are just wow and life changing in a good way. After seeing a lot of articles floating around on the internet talking about some disheartening online dating encounters, I wanted to share…

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April 20, 2017

We insertVerbhere together relationships

I mentioned this to Rowena awhile ago when I slept over at her place and we hung out, but I’m reminded of what I said time and time again as I meet more and more people here in LA. I have this theory that the more verbs you can do with other people in your life, the more fulfilling, full, inspiring, joyful and deep the…

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April 8, 2017

What dating a non-Asian taught me about myself

A few months ago I wrote a blogpost on why I’ll never use dating apps again. (There was even a video made of it). I’ll have you know that I haven’t used a dating app in months/ever since because like I mentioned in the post…I really do believe that you meet the right people when you’re just doing your thing, becoming your best self. I don’t know…

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