Tag: dating

June 30, 2017

The difference between Boyfriend vs Partner

As I’ve gotten older, the way I use and define the word “boyfriend” has changed considerably. When I was younger and more indecisive, it insinuated someone I “hung out with” and liked for the time being. Nowadays it’s gotten even more intense. For me, a boyfriend is a partner. If you’re going to spend that much time, energy and money on another person why would…

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June 3, 2017

11 green flags that showed me he’s a keeper

We’ve all heard/read/been in some unfortunate and downright offensive situations that happen in modern dating (I mean Tinder Nightmares exist!), but very rarely do you hear or see of the text message exchanges that are just wow and life changing in a good way. After seeing a lot of articles floating around on the internet talking about some disheartening online dating encounters, I wanted to share…

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April 8, 2017

What dating a non-Asian taught me about myself

A few months ago I wrote a blogpost on why I’ll never use dating apps again. (There was even a video made of it). I’ll have you know that I haven’t used a dating app in months/ever since because like I mentioned in the post…I really do believe that you meet the right people when you’re just doing your thing, becoming your best self. I don’t know…

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September 25, 2016

Why i’ll never use a Dating App again

Confession: I was on Tinder last night. I had it on my phone for approximately 12 hours (most of which I spent sleeping) before I deleted it for good this morning, without even really talking to anyone. Why was I even on it? I’ve been having trouble sleeping the past few days. I just have a lot going through my mind- a combination of renewed goals, renewed energy and…

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August 12, 2016

Broken up but not broken

My rare specimen, you know the one I was in a long distance relationship with, and I are no longer together. It’s taken me a week to decide whether or not I was going to write about this but here I am. The days after it happened, whenever someone asked me “how was your weekend, how are you?”just casually in conversation, I said good/fine…. and I meant it….

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